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Learning to cope with the loss of a friend...

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We have all lost a friend at some point in our lives.  Sometimes they pass on due to illness or tragedy but the kind I want to talk about today is the kind that just decides to leave you.  Yes the kind that uses the phrase "It's not you it's me.  I need my space right now." I truly believe that everyone is entitled to their space. I truly believe that everyone needs to grow spiritually at their own pace. I truly believe that everyone comes into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. And I truly believe that sometimes a friend is meant to leave but there is a real explanation as part of their leaving. I've had this happen many times but the most recent actually hurt pretty badly (not that is is ever easy).  What I find is that unfortunately I blame myself for them leaving.  I know - don't blame yourself for their actions.  Not always such an easy thing to do when you over think all the time though. I've prided myself on becoming more ope...